Whoa is She

"I didn't have a daddy growing up."

Nothing annoys me more than the ratchet girl fighting in the club, dressing like a street walker and having multiple babies by multiple baby daddy's because she didn't have a father growing up. Or her terrible choice in men or relationship problems, because she didn't have a father growing up. Or I can't keep or maintain healthy friendships or relationships and the expectation to excuse their mistreatment of others, alllll because.....you guessed it...... she didn't have a father growing up.

Whoa is She. But whoa is half of America if that is the case. You know how many successful women never had a father raise them? You know how many married women there are out there that have a successful marriage and relationship with others that didn't have a father raise them? You know how many Baby Momma's are out there that maintain a functional parenthood with the father that didn't have a father raise them? Excuses is the worst reason to remain in a current situation. Stop blaming your lack of motivation to change your life around because you didn't have a daddy!

In the words of Outkast, "Get up, get out and get something." Accountability is key. You shouldn't be on every state assistance while sitting at home complaining about being broke. You shouldn't be mad that you have 6 Baby Daddy's and angry none of them pay child support. Absolutely it is also their responsibility to raise these kids but when do you take responsibility for your choices? It is not ok to have multiple kids but still be in the club weekend after weekend, looking for love in all the wrong place, but then have a tear session of whoa is she.

The Moral of the Story: Not having a daddy is not your get out of jail free card allowing you to make bad decisions, treat others out of pocket, or continuously do nothing and be nothing because you grew up in a single parent household!