Hating

Soooo lets talk about it ladies, let's make it known. We all know that their are haters out there, there are people that don't want to see you succeed. There are people that will hold you down and attempt to enable you if you allow them to. There are people out there that will turn their nose up at your bold attempts at success whether its within a relationship, your career choice, your friend choices, and some on your clothes choices.......now think about the friends that you have that have criticized or questioned you in one of these categories. Now lets not get it twisted with having a good friend, that makes suggestions, offer imput, or questions how you will make what you are attempting happen.

DO you find that when you do something that is different than what they would've done they turn their noise up, or if you decided to make a career or business choice they always got something to say that is not always encouraging or positive. The old saying is that misery loves company. How someone who ain't doing what you doing, can turn their nose up or offer negative feedback, you ain't done it and with that attitude you never will. How you gone tell me my man ain't happening when you single. How you gone tell me its a bad idea to be friends with that chick, when your friend choices ain't so hot either. How you gone tell me I shouldn't take that job when I will be making more than you. Right ladies, you feel me.....ugh, getcha life together!

Now hating is not just limited to friends, family hate too! They wanna call you booche cause you prefer to have some high standards and choices aboutcha self. How am I booche cause I like to keep my hair and nails done, or cause I don't smoke or knock back drinks on a work night. Excuse me for having my priorities in order. I am sick of haters who always got something to say about what you doing, but when it comes to them we supposed to be quiet. Well not today.

What is the moral of this message, mind your own, don't try discouraging me cause you think what I am doing is not anything you would attempt. If you wouldn't do it then that's you but giving me negative push back is not necessary. Keep your negative energy to yourself. I dress how I wanna dress cause that's my swag. I don't smoke cause I don't think it ladylike. I get my hair done cause my paycheck says I can. I attempt different career and business goals because I am striving not to be broke, so if you ain't feeling it, you ain't feeling me, and in the famous words of Neyo....to the left, to the left, keep it moving!